» single she speaks infinitepossibilities

april 23, 2006

ayala center cebu

DoB : august 2, 1979

married? — a dose of miracle needed

boyfriend? — 0

girlfriend? — no plan

MU? — zilch

dating someone exclusively? — currently not a player, not that i was ever a player

jury’s out and verdict says:

unattached. single.

true, i’ve walked and continues to walk this earth with no man to speak of as my other half or special someone. thus, i’m always at the mercy of well-meaning friends and acquaintances who want me to experience a life with someone who has an XY chromosome.

get out there, vet. stop living a life on your own. step out of your comfort zone. get away from abraham lincoln and your books. face the music and find that ONE MAN for you. one of my bosses [sir mo] before even put in his ten cents as his way of wishing me well for 2003; vet, you only need one man to love. just one.

my normal reaction to all these is: all right, give it up. I’m happy where I am. that one man, if he’s ever out there [i doubt that he is] will somehow find his way to me. in fact, if God wants him to meet me, then HE WILL be the one to lead that one man where I am. I assume HE watches me/us 24/7, thus, HE WILL nudge the person to the right direction. with all those said, my friends would readily dimiss my single state, at least for the time being OR until i become the target again.

i love my friends, so I normally don’t take offense when they zero in on me. i also love them so much for respecting my reticence on the matter.

a taco and slushed iced tea <with myself> later, i grabbed hold of my ever present companion - the pen - and thought about humoring anyone who care to read through my crap and decided to scribble random thoughts regarding the so called single state - the joys and fears; the two extreme sides of the pole.

singleshespeaks begins.

ha. for all i know, this could be the one and sole <redundant, vet> entry on this topic. good luck!