infinitepossibilities

people who don’t know me personally regard me as someone who is against marriage. i couldn’t blame them as i never had a relationship with an xy. common logic will bring them to the sa(i)d conclusion. add to the fact that i try to inject cold realities of marriage whenever discussions about it arise. i may be wrong but i always believe that though being optimistic about things, the future is good, one should never disregard cold realities that may come with the decision of tying the noose. the couple should be equipped with knowledge of the good and the bad that could and might happen to them. it is only until then that the couple should take the leap and enter into the contract of lifetime partnership. so contrary to what most people believe, i DON’T ABHOR marriage. in fact, i hold it with utmost respect. marriage to me is sacred. jen, however, claim that though i regard it highly, my concept of what’s sacred is distorted. distorted in the sense that my notions of what it should be are the very things that keep me from relationships, and ultimately, marriage.